This Week: The Countdown is On

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I am tired, you guys. So tired I’m about ready to fall off the perch. I feel like nothing is in my control anymore, every time I do something there’s 20 more things to be done, and I just can’t keep up. It probably doesn’t help that work is ridiculously busy, I’m still trying to run this site, and I’m desperately trying to not drop the ball on being a good wife (I’ll tell you a secret, I think I probably have). To be honest I didn’t write a This Week post last week because I just couldn’t face it. Hayley normally does every second one, but she was on holiday in Tasmania (I’m jealous too) and I just had nothing I could muster the energy to say.

Best

That it it’s Friday. Look, there are amazing things going on and I’m so incredibly blessed, but right now all I need is this weekend. Last weekend we celebrated the Viking’s 40th birthday (which isn’t actually until December 24, but for obvious reasons we chose to celebrate it early) and I was just so proud of myself for pulling off a good party for him. He deserves it.

Worst

You know when you feel like you’re swimming against the tide and instead of making any progress you’re actually moving backwards? Yeah. That.

This Week’s Pic

I could show you one of the many pictures I put up in the past 2 weeks (or you could just follow me on instagram) but instead I chose the picture at the top from Hyperbole and a Half, the post titled This is Why I’ll Never Be An Adult. I have always felt that post was written about me, and this week even more so. Particularly as I sit here typing this on a Thursday night in my cookie monster PJs, with my bins still on the street and having had a McFlurry for dinner.

Winning at life.

Around the Web

This post on why Germans work fewer hours but produce more was really quite fascinating. I couldn’t imagine working with people I didn’t chat to, but I do like the sound of their emails and meetings! I could do without some of the ceremony.

I loved these 13 life hacks you need right now, particularly the tip on boiling water. Feminist Princess Bride had me laughing, and admiring how well so many of the quotes fit with a feminist slant and this piece about the racism in Kim Kardashian’s latest photos had me completely intrigued – I had never seen it before, but now I can’t unsee it.

Closer to home I loved this piece from Danimezza on finding your purpose.

On KiKi & Tea

Maree kicked off this week talking about the most offensive song of 2014, I showed pictorial evidence of why you should define your eyebrows. Jessica wrote about how she has given up on finding Prince Charming, and I admitted I’ve become a fanatic. Last week I expressed my desire to live a simpler life (and how difficult that would be for me), taught you how to curl your hair with a ghd, Sally shared the best Asian noodle soup and Mandi wrote about phase three of the Marvel cinematic universe.

How was your week? Anything to share? 

  • Maryann

    This week as my first week back from 3 weeks leave so it has not been exactly fun. Overflowing emails, academics making stupid decisions that I now have to live plus the usual end of year chaos. On top up that I came back to news my unit is moving to a crappy terrace house next week to make way for academics. Within an hour of walking through the door on Monday it was like I had never had a holiday!

    • https://kikiandtea.com/ Tamsin Howse

      I hate coming back from holiday to things like that. It makes you wonde rwhy you ever took holidays in the first place!

  • http://johnanthonyjames.com/ John James

    Yep, I completely understand “the tired”…

    Don’t get me wrong – My unicorn-levels are still at an all-time high, and I’ve had such a HUGE year – Attending a fantastic 6-month Novel Writing class – completing a third draft of Book #1, and I’ve almost completed a first draft of Book#2 – I’ve grown my blog – oh, and I’m still working 4 days a week on top of all that…

    But now I just want to stop and catch my breath…

    Luckily, I’ll be on Holidays in 3 weeks time… :)

    • https://kikiandtea.com/ Tamsin Howse

      Such big tired.

  • iamevilcupcake

    It’s my birthday today! Woo!!! I’ve been out to lunch every day this week, and again on Monday. Yay!

  • A Blog Called Henry

    Thank you for sharing that article…that is awesome. Being an adult is definitely not all it’s cracked up to me and I so, so, so understand The Tired. I have recently rebelled against myself and my need to people please and say yes and seem like I have my shit together and I will say that I am enjoying life more than I have in a long time. We all have an inner toddler that we need to look after and mine needs to eat every couple of hours, take quiet time when not playing well with others and is less feral with the odd nap :)

    • https://kikiandtea.com/ Tamsin Howse

      Oh I do love a good nap! If I worked at home full time I think I’d schedule in a nap every day.