An Atheist, a Christian and a Marriage

May 7, 2013 in Dating, Friendship, Lifestyle, Marriage, People, Relationships, Religion, Self

I go to church sometimes. Voluntarily. And I don’t mind (much). But I’m not a signed-up member of any religion, and I don’t plan on joining. When I met my husband, Jelly, three and a half years ago, I hardly knew anyone my age who was serious about religion. Other than the compulsory Christianity most of us get in Anglo Australia (weddings, funerals, scripture classes), my childhood had been pretty secular. My attitude was that church was all a bit silly and anachronistic. Where I did have a Christian friend I avoided discussing it or whispered about it (‘they’re churchy, [...]

Marriage: I’m Just Not That Into You

March 27, 2013 in Lifestyle, Marriage, People, Relationships, Religion, Self, Sexuality, Society

Like many other girls, when I was young I would picture my wedding. There was the white dress, the flowers, the bridesmaids, and sometimes even the groom. The thing is; I never thought I would actually get married. I always assumed I would feel different when I was older. It’s never happened. In fact, I’ve become almost adamant that I never want to get married. I would like to preface this piece by saying that I love weddings. Seriously. I LOVE them! Seeing a couple stand up and affirm their love for one another is a beautiful thing. And there [...]

Sharing Your Beliefs in the Workplace

March 22, 2013 in Lifestyle, People, Religion, Self, Society, Work

I’m a Seventh-Day Adventist Christian. I’m also a high school teacher in the state system, where religion is not openly discussed. (Except for in scripture class, once a week, which is optional.) As a teacher, I can’t initiate a conversation with students on religious beliefs, because this could be seen as me trying to ‘convert’ them. If a student chooses to ask me what I personally believe, I am entitled to answer honestly and explain the basics of my belief system. I’m a product of private Christian education. Even my tertiary education was undertaken at a private Christian institution. So [...]

I’m Praying For Pope Stephen

March 12, 2013 in Books, Current Affairs, Politics, Religion

Today, or tomorrow morning, we will welcome a new Pope. I’m praying it will be Pope Stephen. I’ve written about Pope Stephen before on KiKi & Tea in my post, Do What You Will, But Harm None. Pope Stephen is a fictional pope from a parallel universe in the

Abortion: I’m Pro-Choice And Pro-Life

February 11, 2013 in Current Affairs, Gender, Health, Human Rights, Lifestyle, Parenting, People, Pregnancy & Birth, Religion, Self, Sexuality, Society

I’m glad to see that there’s been some new discussions around the antiquated abortion laws in New South Wales and Queensland – about time! Whenever I see articles about abortion, it always makes me wonder what I would do if a sexual partner of mine became pregnant. Given my age, sex, and relationship status (middle-aged, male, and in a 20 year committed relationship) it’s unlikely that I will ever be confronted with this situation. But when people ask me if I am pro-choice or pro-life, I always reply “both”. “How can that be?” they will ask. Well, it all depends [...]

Who am I?

December 13, 2012 in People, Religion, Self, Society

I have been meaning to join KiKi & Tea as a contributor since the website was founded but one thing stopped me: share a little biographical information. I just sat there, staring at the blank field as if it was a semi-trailer hurtling toward me and I the deer; about to be squished. Who am I? It should be the easiest question to answer; all it requires if for me to know myself. And I know myself better than anyone else. And yet I can’t write a twenty word bio of myself that I am satisfied with. Every time I [...]

Dreaming of a Bluewater Christmas

December 3, 2012 in Current Affairs, Entertainment, Family, Film & TV, Music, People, Religion, Society

As December rolls around again, chances are you will hear Bing Crosby dream of a white christmas, or sing about bells jingling. I for one have never ridden in a one horse open sleigh across snow covered fields, and while I wouldn’t mind trying it, it’s a little unrealistic in an Australian summer, or more importantly, an Australian Christmas. When you don’t live in the Northern hemisphere, snow on December 25th is something for movies and carols, My last white Christmas was in Japan, a country where Christmas isn’t even a holiday. Don’t misunderstand me, I have eaten roasted chestnuts [...]

It’s Filth & Monique’s Celeb Top 5

November 30, 2012 in Celebrity, Comedy, Entertainment, Film & TV, Religion

Well guys, this year is coming to a close. It’s the last day of November which means there’s only a month left of 2012. Is this tripping you out as much as it is me? For a quick public service announcement, to all the lovely readers in Victoria and NSW (and anywhere else that is going to be affected), please take care of yourself these next few days as the heatwave takes over. Stay hydrated and be sun safe! Now onto what’s been happening in Hollywood and on our shores. It’s been a fairly controversial week in Hollywood, enjoy… 1. [...]

Halloween: Where Do You Stand?

October 29, 2012 in Celebrity, Children, Current Affairs, Entertainment, Film & TV, Lifestyle, People, Religion, Self, Society

Halloween is a polarising holiday. If “Holiday” is the right term. Here at KK&T we are as polarised as anyone. We had two posts submitted on the topic, in direct competition with each other. So we decided to post them both… together. From Maree Talidu: At this time of year, every year, I am subjected to name calling, such as ‘heretic’, ‘killjoy’, ‘bible basher’, and ‘racist’ and am accused of not having a sense of fun or adventure. You see, I don’t do Halloween. Never have, never will. This comes down to 3 main points for me. 1. I see Halloween [...]

Video: Pastor’s Anti-Equal Rights Speech… with a Twist

October 20, 2012 in Current Affairs, Human Rights, Marriage, News, People, Politics, Religion, Sexuality, Society

We don’t normally post on the weekend but I decided to make an exception to share with you this stunning speech by a Missouri Pastor against equal marriage rights… Watch for the twist. Stand on the right side of history.