Why I Object to “No Sex Before Marriage”

May 23, 2013 in Body Image, Health, Mental Health, People, Religion, Sex, Sexuality

I was recently at a Friday night church service and they were mentioning a few upcoming events. One of the upcoming events, aimed at 13-18 year old girls, was called “The Bride Wore White”. I grumbled when I saw it. I must have done this louder than I intended as the friend beside me said “Calm down, T.” I’d like to take this moment to say I actually don’t go to church very often, so these kind of things stand out to me a lot more than they did when I went regularly. I’d also like to say I have [...]

Ask A Brothel Receptionist: Part 2 (NSFW)

April 19, 2013 in Anecdotes, People, Sex, Sexuality, Society, Work

Cassie worked as a receptionist in a brothel. She’s written a series answering the most common questions. This is Part 2. Go here for Part 1 4. Well, I’ve never seen a sex worker. How pathetic are people who have to pay for sex? Don’t you just hate them? Okay, so this one isn’t so much a question as a statement I heard over and over again. And while, admittedly, the clients could drive me nuts sometimes, they were also paying my wage, so they got at least a little bit of my protectiveness as well. Clients aren’t assholes – assholes are [...]

Ask A Brothel Receptionist: Part 1 (NSFW)

April 12, 2013 in Entertainment, Film & TV, Gender, Health, Lifestyle, Mental Health, Nutrition, People, Sex, Sexuality, Society, Work

Cassie worked as a receptionist in a brothel. She’s written a series answering the most common questions. This is Part 1 You probably won’t be surprised to hear I’ve gotten into quite a few heated arguments with people over my acceptance of the sex industry and the people who work in it. It’s an issue that can set people off very very quickly, and I’ve seen people go from zero to Hitler with appalling speed as soon as sex work is mentioned. But I’ve learned that head on arguments take more out of me than they chip away at the [...]

Dumped! In The Alley

April 3, 2013 in Dating, Friendship, Sex

“Russ! Wait up. Are you OK?” cried Holly, rushing after Russell into the alley behind the bar. “Yeah, I guess so,” said Russell, turning to face Holly and shrugging. “You really gave it to them,” she said, smiling proudly. “Fat lot of good it did me.” “Does that matter?” “I don’t know.” Russell shrugged again, shaking his head. “You were right though.” “It doesn’t change the fact that I’m alone.” “You’re not alone. You’ve still got me.” “No I don’t. Not the way I want.” “But isn’t this enough?” “No.” “Well, poor old Russell,” said Holly, standing with her hand [...]

Fiction: The Male Protection Act

March 4, 2013 in Fiction, Gender, Sex, Sexuality, Society

TV Host: Good evening, and welcome to News Time. I’m your host, Stewart Roman. Tonight in the studio we have as our guest newly appointed Police Commissioner, Mavis Atkinson. Commissioner: Thank you. It’s a pleasure to be here. TV Host: You are three weeks into your new role. How do you feel you have been handling the new responsibilities? Commissioner: Well Stewart, it’s been challenging, but I have the support of my family and my colleagues – and of course the Minister. I wouldn’t have taken on this role unless it was challenging. TV Host: Now, you’ve been charged with enforcing the new Male Protection Act. This [...]

Dumped! The Internet Date (NSFW)

February 27, 2013 in Dating, Fiction, Friendship, Sex

Holly and Carla were sitting in Russell’s bedroom. Normally this would have been an exciting and unusual occurrence for Russell, but he was too busy connecting to the URL Blake had given him the day before. “OK…just connecting now…” “There they are!” exclaimed Holly. “Oh, gross!” said Carla, covering her eyes with her hands, but still somehow managing to peak through her fingers. On Russell’s laptop, in full HD glory, they could see a live-stream of Blake and his date. Blake was naked, tied to a bed, face down. His date was dressed in kinky black latex and long boots. [...]

Why Matthew Johns is an Alpha Male – and Shouldn’t Be

February 15, 2013 in Celebrity, Current Affairs, Film & TV, News, People, Sex, Society, Sport

“Man up, Sydney!” So a billboard advertisement for Triple M’s The Grill Team admonishes, glaring down from atop the Pacific Highway, Roseville at us pathetic, feminine Sydney motorists. I must confess I’ve never quite understood the phrase ‘man up’. Particularly after watching my pregnant boss carry around an energy-sapping bowling ball in her stomach for the last nine months and deal with the unique hell that is working in retail over Christmas, I can’t perceive how there is anything quite so tough as a woman. And that’s to say nothing of how the bowling ball is expelled into the world. Confusion [...]

Double Standards A-Plenty

February 12, 2013 in Children, Fathers, Gender, Marriage, Mothers, People, Sex

It amazes me that in this day and age, double standards are still such an issue. With things like Gay rights, and Women’s rights, and equality being fought for the world over, there are still some unbeliveable double standards, which are completely mind boggling! Men are Studs, Women are Sluts This one really rubs me up the wrong way. Basically, men can sleep with whoever they want, and they are considered studs, whereas women get categorised as sluts. So to even up the score, I’ve taken to calling one of my guys a man whore. It’s only fair. Men and [...]

Nice Try, Ryan Gosling…

January 23, 2013 in Celebrity, Entertainment, Film & TV, Humour, Sex

I don’t get it. I’ll put my hand up and say I’m one of the five people on the planet who just doesn’t get the whole Ryan Gosling thing. I’m also one of those people that doesn’t get the whole Brad Pitt and George Clooney thing either. At this point I should mention that yes, I have a fully functional set of female reproductive glands, and yes, I can see he hasn’t been beaten with the ugly stick. But I still don’t get it. I have only seen one movie with Mr Gosling in it. Maybe that’s the problem? But [...]

Pre-Dumped: The 5.15 from Central to Hornsby

January 21, 2013 in Dating, Fiction, Friendship, Humour, Marriage, Sex, Sexuality, Society

This is a mini-prequel-teaser-post to the new Rom-Com-Web-Serial, “Dumped”, coming soon to KiKi & Tea. Blake was stuck on the 5.15 from Central to Hornsby. The train was packed with tired looking commuters going home for the night. It seemed as if the whole carriage was staring at him, or at least staring at the cute young woman standing next to Blake who was screaming at him and hitting him repeatedly. Fifteen minutes earlier he had been standing on the platform at Central waiting for the train with his girlfriend. She was yapping away, and he was pretending to listen, [...]