Christmas Traditions

Danish-Glazed-Potatoes
Danish Glazed Potatoes

Danish Glazed Potatoes

Each year on the 23rd of December you will find me at Danish Christmas. Traditionally celebrated on the 24th but moved for convenience, the Viking’s family get together and hold a proper celebration. Before I became part of this family I didn’t realise anyone actually did this, to be honest, and thought it was the stuff of Christmas specials and fairytales. Singing carols around a piano? Surely not! But they do.

We arrive early afternoon, but the place is already in full swing. Each of the adults has their role to play. Oh, did I mention there are 19 adults (give or take a few partners) and 8 children? Yep, that many. So back to the day.

Once we arrive we take our spots. I usually look after the rice pudding, the boys (the Viking, Viking brother & Viking cousin) do the glazed potatoes, other Viking cousin does the turkey, mother of Viking does the vege roast and veggies. Plus there’s non-glazed potatoes and a whole lot of gravy.

The kids sit outside decorating gingerbread men, and that’s often where you’ll find me before the rice porridge starts going.

My Christmas Tree

My Christmas Tree

Once dinner is ready we each take a bowl of rice porridge and eat with cinnamon sugar. In the bottom of one bowl (one for adults, one for children) there is an almond. Whoever gets the almond wins a gift.

After this we eat, then we all sing carols around the piano, followed by gifts for the children then a Kris Kringle for all of the adults. Every adult brings a gift appropriate to their own gender. They all go in two big piles and we draw numbers for the order of picking them. Each year there’s always a gag gift or two, and I often aim to pick my mother in law’s as I recognise her wrapping and I know her taste.

My family’s Christmas, however, is a wholly different affair. On the 25th, starting early in the morning with Bircher muesli (ironically a recipe taught to my mother by Morfar, the Viking’s grandfather) followed by presents, usually a wrapping paper fight, and then a big lunch of roast meats, and other different things mum decides on that year. My in-laws attend this Christmas as well but it usually maxes out at 10 adults (usually just 8) and 1 child (stepdaughter). A much smaller affair, but intimate and fun. Last year there were helicopter escapades as everyone played with their new toys.

There are only 2 traditions in my family’s Christmas. My mum must always be “Santa” and hands out gifts one at a time. And we have home made stockings with our names on them hung on the fireplace. Including Stepdaughter, who was presented with her very own stocking after our wedding.

I love both my Christmasses equally and love how different they both are. It wasn’t until I became part of a bigger family that I realised how different the holidays can be between families.

So I’m interested: How do you celebrate the holidays? Do you have Christmas? 

  • Maddi

    I have a relatively large family on my mums side-she has 7 siblings and step-siblings, so I have loads of cousins. Generally, we celebrate Christmas with them, at my grandparents farm. My aunty is chief cook, and all the other women help out (this sounds really old school and stereotypical but it’s not). We have a kids table and an adults table, there are crackers, and seafood is strictly a post-December 25th affair. Dessert is usually the main occasion and I’ve gotten sick many a time for having eyes bigger than my stomach.
    After lunch, we younger people open gifts, then head down to the beach while the older people sleep.
    That may have turned out to be quite long, but basically that’s out Christmas. I love hearing other peoples traditions :)

    • https://kikiandtea.com/ Tamsin Howse

      It’s so easy to over eat on Christmas, isn’t it?

      I think I’d need to have a sleep with the oldies :)

  • Jessica Chapman

    Our family alternates Christmas between spending it in Sydney in even years and the Gold Coast on odd years. This was started because it meant a Christmas with Mum’s parents one year and Dad’s the other. Every year we put up our Christmas tree on the first weekend of December, the tree is old and well travelled (it came to Pakistan with us) and we’ve been saying we need a new one for about eight years.

    Christmas in Syndey starts on Christmas Eve with a drive around the neighbourhood to see what people have done with the Christmas lights. On this drive we decide how early we’re getting up the next morning to open presents. We then sing carols around the Christmas tree before we go to bed. We get up quite early and open all our gifts to each other in our pyjamas. After all the paper is cleaned up we start to get ready for the day. Christmas lunch is always at a relatives house, sometimes ours. Mum always makes a stuffed gluten roll, which I always feel is a marriage of Christmas tradition as the vegetarian gluten roll recipe is my Dad’s Mothers’ but the stuffing is my Mum’s Mothers that she used to use with a turkey. There is always a bowl of cherries and a bowl of lychees on the table and usually bon bons to be opened. We used to always go out to Mum’s Uncle Clive’s and give him a bottle of grape juice, and drink his home made pineapple juice out of cups that hadn’t been washed for decades, until he died a couple of years ago.

    Christmas in Queensland usually has the same lunch, but everything else varies depending on who else is visiting and what is planned.

    • https://kikiandtea.com/ Tamsin Howse

      Oh Uncle Clive, I remember the stories well.

  • Pelican Pie

    Those glazed potatoes look scrummy! How do you glaze potatoes?

    • https://kikiandtea.com/ Tamsin Howse

      You start with more butter than is possibly good for you (about 150g) then a whole lot of sugar, then you wait until it caramelises, stick the potatoes in it, turning them to coat them, and let them soak and absorb it.

      As a side note: I’m allergic to caramel and HATE glazed potatoes. I hate even being in the room.

      • Pelican Pie

        Oh. Thanks Tamsin. Now I don’t think I would like them, either – bit too much like glazed carrots and I don’t know why I didn’t make that association before I asked you the question.
        Now I know the composition, the picture doesn’t look nearly as yummy…

        BTW – I’m incredibly extravagant with butter. Love it.

      • Detachable Princess

        OK, random thought – are you allergic to butter, or sugar, or both, or just the specific caramel combination?

        • https://kikiandtea.com/ Tamsin Howse

          It seems to be the burning of the sugar I react to. Anything caramelised makes me sick.

  • Detachable Princess

    Christmas morning in my house means one thing and one thing only – cheerios (cocktail franks) mixed into tinned spaghetti, and heated up on the stove. NFI why, but it’s all I want for breakfast each christmas day, and at no other time of year!

    We also have our own personalised stockings at mum’s house, and have done since we were kids. Each additional family member (P-Daddy, LittleDude and AJ) got their own stocking as the years went on. The stockings *must* contain a mixed-pack of the good cereals (Frosty’s, Coco Pops etc), another holdover from childhood when it was the only time of year we were allowed them!

    The last few years it’s been breakfast at my mum’s (other breakfast foods are permissible, but the frank/spag combo must be there), home with the kids for naptime, then on to my cousin’s for early dinner/swim. Usually we see P-Daddy’s family on Boxing Day, and that’s a day up the farm with all his aunties.

    I love my family get-togethers, because they include my mum, dad and step-mum all having a wonderful time together. They’re all good friends, and I think my kids are incredibly lucky to be able to see that even if a marriage doesn’t work out, you can still enjoy that person’s company and want the best for your children together.

  • Maryann

    We do year about, so one year all my family get together on Christmas Day and the next year it is Boxing Day. This gives the in laws a chance to have Christmas as well. We do not really have any must dos we just like getting together. It is a bit different now as mum & dad are no longer with us. But as long as there is plenty to eat & drink, & that is never an issue, then all is right with the world. It is a lot of fun when there are young kids involved. Everyone have a wonderful, happy and safe Christmas.

  • thelifeofclare

    It’s funny how traditions start. J joined out Christmas the first year that we were dating. He has no family traditions. But my family has lots. Our family gets together to open presents pre-Brunch with all our family friends, people that I’ve know almost my whole life. Then home for a relax/nap/Christmas movie,, back to mum and dads for a seafood feast/snack, then dinner with our extended family. It’s also always the same traditional Christmas fare. I can’t wait!

  • http://www.ispyplumpie.com/ Liz @ I Spy Plum Pie

    We don’t have much family in Australia so ours has always been a low-key affair. We do breakfast with one lot of friends (which always includes croissants) and then lunch with my nan and another set of friends, which always includes a trifle. Later on all our family friends come round when they have finished with their family time and we all eat leftovers together.
    Our real traditions are the day before and after Christmas though – Dad always makes us go shopping on Christmas Eve for last minute presents, and Boxing Day is spent at the MCG for the test match. Works well for me!