Commercial Surrogacy: Australian Parents & Indian Women Lose

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Dr Nayna Patel and surrogates at the Akanksha Infertility Clinic in Anand, India

The commercial surrogacy industry in India is worth 2.5 billion dollars. Each year Australians pay $77K for a commercial surrogacy in India.

I’ll be honest with you, commercial surrogacy in India is not a subject that I would usually delve in to. When I buy the newspaper on the weekends I admit that I barely skim the world news and if I’m really being frank sometimes I just flick through the whole thing not giving it a second thought. Why? Well, I believe we have a lot going on in our own back yard at the moment especially when it concerns the health and safety of asylum seekers – mainly children who are locked away in detention.

But this story caught my eye and unsettled me.

The Sun Herald reports:

Australians paying women in India to have their babies are being overcharged by clinics taking advantage of the booming demand for commercial surrogacy, advocacy groups warn.

As a growing number of Australians travel to India to start a family, spending up to $80,000 and risking breaking the law, Surrogacy Australia said complaints about Indian clinics overcharging were growing.

“There is a concern surrogates are being exploited, equally there is a concern parents are being exploited,” the group’s president, Sam Everingham, said.

Having a baby is supposed to be one of the greatest times in your life. Many of us desire to have everything organised before we fall pregnant, or at least before the due date arrives but of course this is often not the case. But what bothers me is that these Australians, who are already experiencing problems with fertility, are being exploited because they are desperate to have a child of their own.

It makes me terribly sad that those mothers and fathers who so desperately want to become parents often find it the hardest to fall pregnant. And it’s not just the Australians who are being exploited. I find it hard to believe that any Indian woman, who is struggling financially, could afford not to consider being a surrogate when the industry is booming.

“Typically, Indian surrogates earn 300,000 to 400,000 rupees for carrying and delivering a baby, an amount which could take them a decade to earn in other jobs”

There is growing concern that within India’s massive, unregulated surrogacy industry that anywhere between 600 and 1000 surrogacy clinics exist, most without any oversight. Proposed laws to control surrogacy, including mandating local guardians for surrogates and limiting them to five pregnancies, have been stalled before the Indian parliament since 2010.

That only says one thing to me: Money is more important to the Indian Government than the health and wellbeing of their people. And that is just not good enough. Yes, these women are making money, but at what cost? When a report by the Centre for Social Research found that 86 per cent of women agreed to be surrogates because of poverty, my heart broke.

One Australian couple spoke to the Sun Herald about how their surrogacy experience was ‘like going to a supermarket to pick up your baby’.

The couple asked the Surrogacy Centre India (SCI), run by Dr Shivani Sachdev-Gour, to facilitate a relationship with their surrogate or a link at the very least. They wanted to monitor her progress and send recordings of their voices for Saffron in utero. At every turn, however, they were blocked, the couple said. They were not allowed to know the woman’s name, and only after months of asking, were granted a single photograph of the surrogate, from neck down

Indian surrogates are paid $6000 for a successful pregnancy, plus living expenses for a year (about $3000). But what about the emotional toll for these women? Their mental health must be suffering as a result of carrying a baby that is not their own to full term. And not only are they giving up this baby but it is being transported to live overseas without any contact with its “mother” – and in some cases like the above where the couple want the surrogate to play an active role in their babies life, somehow.

The booming surrogacy demands in India can be illegal and costly for those who risk it. There is too much at risk here and somewhere the Australian or Indian Government must step in.

The NSW Government is under pressure to rethink the ban on commercial surrogacy overseas. Surrogacy activists will push the case for decriminalisation at a private lunch for NSW parliamentarians next week.

What do you think of commercial surrogacy? Are Indian women being exploited? Should it be banned?

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    • Melissa Savage

      I suspect in 20-30 years there is going to be a huge scandal about overseas adoptions and surrogacy. We’re going to realise the enormity of all of the unethical pressure placed on women to give birth, and all the babies given up to be adopted by rich white people. Infertility is horrible, and I certainly support the rights of gay and lesbian couples to adopt or become parents via surrogate, but I get a horrible feeling that a lot of this comes on the back of poorer, browner people and especially women, and that does not sit right with me. And as for overcharging: well how much would you ask for if you were the one carrying a baby to term that wasn’t yours. Cos you could not pay me enough to do that.

      • Rose Russo

        That’s an interesting point Melissa. Imagine the fall out in 15-20 years especially if these children want to contact their surrogate. It’s certainly a tricky topic but it unsettled me and that’s why I shared it.

        I personally think the Australian Government should be doing more… but what can we do when it isn’t happening here? Other than ban it I guess. I don’t think that is the answer.

    • Carohutchison

      As someone who has considered being an alturistic surrogate I have a couple of issues with this article. Firstly I believe it is possible to carry a baby that’s not yours and give it to their parents at birth. I didn’t feel connected to any of my babies until they were born. Yes I was looking forward to meeting them, and excited etc, but they didn’t feel real until they arrived. I think I could be an incubator for someone without it damaging my mental health. I also wouldn’t consider myself the mother of a child I carried, especially if it wasn’t my genetic material as I wouldn’t be raising it. Saying that, I couldn’t be a surrogate in the UK sense of the word, carrying a baby that was mine genetically and giving it to someone else to raise. I could donate my eggs though. It’s such a grey area, and such a personal thing for all parties.

      • Rose Russo

        It definitely is a grey area. I’ve never really thought about being a surrogate but I know I would find it very difficult… being pregnant is an emotional thing and I think if I didn’t have any children of my own yet I wouldn’t consider it. Selfish I know.

        The article itself from the Sun Herald shed some light on an issue that I was acutely aware of. I think it is a problem that parents are having to break the law just to have a child overseas, especially since the donor registry now makes men donating their sperm give their name if the child wishes to track them down. I believe this has contributed to the problem somehow.

        I feel sorry for all involved – the Indian women who are poor in a sense I’m sure most Australians wouldn’t understand, and the parents here in Australia who are willing to sell all they have to have a child. There are no winners. I think it should be regulated a lot better. If thousands of Australian parents are using Indian surrogates surely the Government could have a say about trying to get these surrogates better health care and limiting their pregnancies.

    • katie

      You’ve neglected to mention how difficult this path is in Australia, I think if women had the option of acquiring a surrogate in Australia it would happen with a better helthcare system and protection for both mother and child. The question here is not what we value the lives of Indian surrogates, but our government and how in touch it is – given that there is a large proportion of Australian women willing to do the same thing for lower costs within better healthcare. In any case, this sort of service should be charged at a premium. The assumption we are getting ripped off is an insult to the women who give up their lives for nine months!

      I’m new to blogging and reading blogs, so I don’t know if I’m being out of line, but the research into this topic seems sensationalist, haphazard and hopeless. You have definitely lost a reader the same day I started. The quality of online journalism is, quite frankly, pathetic.

      • Rose Russo

        I wouldn’t go as far as to say this article, or the article in the Sun Herald which I’ve quoted from extensively is sensationalist. These are the facts – 86% of Indian surrogates are experiencing poverty and use the money (very little I might add) to help their families. This unsettles me. I don’t know if I could morally use a surrogate in an industry which is not regulated and women are able to have multiple pregnancies, who knows how many?

        I agree about the healthcare system in Australia and it letting us down with trying to acquire a surrogate in our own back yard. Australians used to go to the US but now the price of surrogates has skyrocketed. The demand is there… and sadly many people are financially benefiting from these parents who are desperate to have their own child.

        It is not an assumption that Australians are being ripped off there are stories – Darren and Clair Pinks risked a 2 year jail sentence to talk to the media about what they experienced. Have a read – http://www.smh.com.au/national/it-was-like-going-to-a-supermarket-to-pick-up-your-baby-20120901-25741.html

        I apologise if my writing let you down. It takes a lot of work to run an online publication – one that I contribute to for free and out of my own time no less. There is a way to have your opinion without harsh criticism but I thank you for reading anyway.

      • http://tamsinhowse.com/blog Tamsin Howse

        Hi Katie,

        I’m sorry to hear you feel this way. I’d just like to point out this website isn’t a news source and we are not journalists, this is a community blog space, we provide opinions on current news stories but we don’t write them.

        I’d also like to clarify that we believe the women who are carrying the babies are being ripped off.

        Warm regards,
        Tamsin Howse
        Editor, KiKi & Tea