I’ve Kissed Lipstick Goodbye

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Every Friday, I purchase and read WHO magazine. It’s a ritual. I read every page, including the beauty tips. As I recently read advice on how to achieve the perfect matte red lip, it occurred to me: I can’t remember the last time I wore lipstick.

In high school (the nineties, baby) I was a fan of Australis and Covergirl lipsticks in frosty shades. As I got older, looking back at my formal photos, I was a slave to a dark, almost velvety red/brown lipstick. It was not my finest hour.

Don’t get me wrong: I LOVE having fun with my lips, but without lipstick. I own lip-gloss, lip butter, lip tint, lip stain, lip plumping balm. My brands range from Estee Lauder lip-gloss, Lancôme Juicy Tubes, Napoleon Love Bite- right down to good old Bonnie Bell Lipsmackers.

My current daily lip accompaniment?  Lipsmackers. At the moment, I’m addicted to the Vanilla Coke flavour. It gives a nice, moisturizing gloss without that punch of colour.

Maree’s lippy collection

When I go to parties, I still hold back on the lips. Probably a gloss with a pinch of pearly colour and that’s it. I’ve grown up believing that when you wear makeup, you don’t do dark, heavy eyes as well as a bold lip. It’s an either/or situation. Because my eye makeup is so dark and smoky, I just hold back when it comes to the lips.

It’s strange because as a kid, lipstick was the item of makeup I was desperate to play with out of mums makeup bag. When I was deemed ‘old enough’ to wear makeup, I gravitated towards lipstick. And like I’ve said, I still own too many ‘lipstick alternatives’.

So on posing the question of ‘when did I last wear actual lipstick?’ to myself, the answer is as a bridesmaid in 2004. Do I miss it? Obviously not.

When I DO wear a full face of makeup, I choose my eyes over my lips any day of the week. But the lips don’t go without; they just play a background role. So yep: I kissed lipstick goodbye.

Do YOU wear lipstick regularly? Could you cope with a makeup bag that is free of lipstick? What beauty product have you kissed goodbye?

    • Carohutchison

      I am the total opposite. Hate leaving the house without a lippy in my bag. I’ve got full lips and small eyes, so I tend to play up the good parts 😉 and I’m rubbish at the smoky eye, I just end up looking like I’ve been in a fight. Two coats of mascara and that’s about it for me.

    • Jessica Chapman

      I think I’d wear lipstick more if it wasn’t so difficult maintain a good coverage throughout the day. There’s nothing I hate more than seeing myself with half- rubbed off lipstick. And you can’t reapply without a mirror, you either have to drag yourself off to the bathrooms or carry a compact. Whereas lip balm (even tinted) you just whack on wherever. So basically I’m just too lazy for lipstick.

    • Valentina B

      Whilst I love the idea of lipstick, the thought of maintaining it and, when wearing a bright colour, worrying that it’s not all over my face and teeth is more effort than I’d like to put in. It’s why I prefer to play up my eyes because it’s less maintenance during the day.

    • Bek M

      I’m the opposite!
      I have no idea how to do eye makeup, plus I’m pretty allergy/hayfever prone so my eyes tend to water if put on anything.
      Having a bright lipstick cheers me up, and if I can be bothered taking the time to do it properly, it lasts a while. The trick is to outline and cover lips with a lip liner, so the lipstick has something to stick to. Then put on the lipstick with a lip brush. Blot and repeat a few times. Voila!

      • Ozlicious

        I’m almost the same story! My eyes are often watery, so sometimes it’s all I can do to put a coat of mascara on them. But if I have a great lipstick, I don’t need anything more than foundation/bronzer/brows/mascara.

        Using a lipliner is key, and blotting/repeating is essential too. If you’re worried about losing colour throughout the day, go with a matte lipstick rather than a creme or shiny finish. MAC and Nars are amazing.

        • Bek M

          Yay bright lips forever! :-)

          At the moment I’m using some matte cheapies from Aldi- Lacura brand. I’m pretty happy with them.

    • Maree Talidu

      It looks funny on me. I’m so pale, I can’t explain what it is, but I hate the feeling of it (too heavy) and I am too lazy to do the whole lip liner, brush, blot routine, I am the kind of person who will think it’s on my teeth when it’s not. A balm or gloss or even lip tint is easy, virtually no mess, no fuss.

    • Ozlicious

      I wear lipstick all the time, I absolutely love it! That said, I’m 29 now and I probably only became comfortable with the “statement” made by lipstick maybe two or three years ago. You do have to be confident to pull off a bold red, pink or orange. But now, I can’t get enough of bright punchy colours! I find that they actually require LESS effort than the “dark eyes/nude lips” combo because you really only need to do a light wash of eyeshadow and a coat of mascara on the eyes. And the comments you get! Oh dear lord! If you’re someone who loves receiving compliments, crack out a matte red lipstick and listen to them roll in.