Women with short hair less attractive?

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Let me tell you something about my hair. IT DOESN’T GROW! The length it sits at now is the longest it has been in the history of my hair, which is about 5cm below my shoulders, shorter if I wear it curly as it is naturally.

I marvel at it some days, as I wonder why women chop off their luscious locks when I struggle to grow my hair out at all. Which is why I was intrigued by an article which suggested that attractiveness can be measured in length.

This is what Brisbane Times journalist and professional people watcher, Katherine Feeney, proposed in her latest column this week. She mused that talking about hair, which is perhaps a mundane and boring blog discussion yet generated hundreds of comments from people who had an opinion about the short vs. long debate. Now I don’t really have a choice in the matter. I know that short hair wouldn’t suit me because I have curly hair and I consider my hair to be part of my personality. Do you?

“Hair has cultural significance, is vastly symbolic, represents a multi-billion dollar industry and never fails to arouse debate. This is especially true in the context of sexual attraction”

I get this. I think some shorter styles suit women but ultimately I think longer hair is more beautiful. Perhaps I’m programmed to think this way as longer hair is deemed more feminine. Or perhaps because my own damn hair just won’t budge.

I’ve always wanted Jennifer Aniston’s hair. I’ve straightened and bleached my mane to get as close to her golden locks as possible. But sometimes as I brush my unruly hair in the morning and sigh, I forget she has a legion of stylists following her. She is paid to look after herself and her hair is her greatest asset*

If she cut off her locks, which she did during her 10-year stint on Friends, and everyone gasped. Okay, maybe not everyone but a lot of women did. Why, they cried. But seriously now why does it matter so much? What’s with the short hair hate? Specifically for women? Does it make them any less womanly?

“Some scientists believe its an evolutionary thing. That long hair comes from a healthy body good for breading, and so is most desirable. This might explain the long cultural history of heroines haloed by cascading curls. Cave paintings show early humans had a thing for ladies with length”

I guess it all depends on your personality. Some women rock a short do while others prefer to grow it long, colour it, chop it or do whatever they see fit. We have the choice and this is great but don’t we all want what we can’t have? I can’t tell you how many times I’ve sat across from SWGH (Someone With Great Hair) and thought now why can’t my hair look like that?

What do you think? Are you attracted to women with long or short hair? Do you wish your hair would be something different or are you happy with your locks?

* This could be debated, she has a killer bod too

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    • http://music.johnanthonyjames.com/ John James

      My hair is longer than my partner’s…which means…OMG…I AM MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN MY PARTNER!!! It all makes sense now!!!

      I am truly GORGEOUS!!!

      • http://tamsinhowse.com/blog Tamsin Howse

        My colleagues think I’m weird now because I just started laughing… I can hear you saying it, with a hair flick and all!

        • http://music.johnanthonyjames.com/ John James

          You’re weird, I’m gorgeous…’nuff said! 😉

    • Monique Fischle

      For years, I would spend the year growing my hair long, get over it and chop it off (just above the shoulders) for summer. This went on until I decided that I wanted hair long enough that I could realistically walk around without a shirt on and it would cover everything.

      I also wanted long hair when I got married as I wanted long loose curls. And I figured if I didn’t drastically cut my hair until after I got married, I’d be sweet. It’s been 5 years since I’ve had a drastic hair cut and I no longer want long loose curls at my wedding, apart from the fact that I am so far away from getting married it’s not funny.

      I switch between wanting really short hair again (not “boy” short, I still want to be able to put it back, even if it’s a really tiny ponytail) and keeping it long. I’ve decided to stay with long for now.

      I think if you wear your hair well at any length, you look gorgeous. But I do love it when girls can pull off a really short hair do.

      As for me, I’m relatively happy with my hair, but I have always wanted Peyton curls (One Tree Hill circa-season one/two).

      WOW that was long!

    • Jessica Chapman

      I believe there is such a thing as too long, when I was in late high school my hair was a length which I believe could be described as scary long. I wore it up most of the time and put a lot of effort (deep conditioning once a week, only using a wide tooth comb when it was wet, frequent trims) into keeping it that length and not looking like a horses mane or a bunch of straw. I realised that when you can wrap your hair around your neck more than twice in the manner of a Browning poem it’s scary long and you need to cut it. I am much happier now I can blow dry it in under an hour.

    • fender4eva

      Michelle Williams can get away with short hair, but give me a woman with long flowing locks, any day. Oh ok, I’ll find my own…… :-)

    • Melissa Savage

      My face is too round for short hair. Sometimes I wish I could do short and practical but long hair is really quite easy – if it’s greasy or being difficult you just put it in a bun and forget about it, you can do lots of things to it and you don’t generally have to mess about with ‘product’ on an ordinary day.

      I think there is an interesting de-sexualisation undertone to our perceptions of women’s short hair. In our culture, most women over a certain age cut their hair short and in our youth-obsessed world we take this as them ‘giving up’ on impractical long hair because they no longer ‘need’ it to attract a man.Older women who keep their hair long, especially those who let it fade to grey or white, are usually seen as a bit alternative or hippy-dippy.

      I was at lunch the other day and I saw three women in their 60s or 70s all with exactly the same haircut: short back and sides with a fringe and teased, maybe permed, up on top in the same golden brown colour. How boring! It was the beige trousers of haircuts: sensible, practical, de-sexualised and reeking of people trying very hard to be appropriate and tasteful. I immediately repeated the vow I made to myself when I was in my early 20s: no cropped hair and no perms. But honestly, who gives a fuck and who am I to judge them. If they are happy then fine. But I would rather be the crazy lady with the purple bob or the long sleek, white ponytail (one of my father’s cousins who is in her 50s has this exact hair and it rocks).