There is non-stop talk in the media about body size, shape and image. It permeates everything – television, magazines, radio, websites…We cannot seem to escape it and, boy, do I want to.
I’m sick of it. I’m sick of hearing about it, sick of reading it about it. People throw around these patronising phrases designed to make women feel better about themselves “real women have curves”, “big is beautiful”. There’s two distinct camps – the larger bodied women with the catch cries about how men love curves, and the thin women who don’t want to be compared to boys because they have no boobs or bums. Then there’s the middle camp, the healthy, curvy women who don’t want “curvy” to be a euphemism for fat.
I’ve written about body image before. I’ve written about my own journey from being extremely thin to being slightly larger and getting called fat (I never was), to putting on muscle and being somewhere in the middle, but the healthiest I have ever been.
Today, International Women’s Day, I have a challenge for you. What if, instead of talking about how some women have this that or the other, or this looks better than that, or even about other people’s health. How about we just stop talking about it? Just stop.
What would happen?
We could cause a massive downturn in magazine sales. We could change the face of the beauty industry. We could make a whole lot of people suddenly realise that their value does not lie in the superficial. We could help some people to feel better about themselves and maybe even break the unhealthy relationship they have with their body. We could make a real change.
Sure, you’re only one person. I’m only one person. But together there are 2 of us. Add your sister and that makes 3. Add my mother, that’s 4… This can grow. This can spread. Just stop talking about it.
Think about it for a moment and get back to me. I think it can be done.
Remember – Real women have vaginas. And some people I call women don’t even have that. 😉
T.
Photo: Source unknown.
About International Women’s Day
When: Thursday 8 March 2012
Where: Everywhere
What: International Women’s Day (8 March) is a global day celebrating the economic, political and social achievements of women past, present and future. In some places like China, Russia, Vietnam and Bulgaria, International Women’s Day is a national holiday.
Why: Suffragettes campaigned for women’s right to vote. The word ‘Suffragette’ is derived from the word “suffrage” meaning the right to vote. International Women’s Day honours the work of the Suffragettes, celebrates women’s success, and reminds of inequities still to be redressed. The first International Women’s Day event was run in 1911. 2011 was the Global Centenary Year. Let’s reinvent opportunity for all women … more
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