Dear girls, women, fabulous females of all ages: It has come to my attention that we rather like telling each other what to do. We’re a bossy bunch, we are. So many expectations; so many standards. It takes a total of, oh, one glance at the magazines that we write for each other to corroborate this conclusion. Frolicking my way through the world wide web just now, I had Cleo tell me to shake things up in the bedroom and avoid “blow-out days” in my diet; Cosmo very helpfully informed me that I “hate to love” a whole bunch of [...]