Sharing Your Beliefs in the Workplace

March 22, 2013 in Lifestyle, People, Religion, Self, Society, Work

I’m a Seventh-Day Adventist Christian. I’m also a high school teacher in the state system, where religion is not openly discussed. (Except for in scripture class, once a week, which is optional.) As a teacher, I can’t initiate a conversation with students on religious beliefs, because this could be seen as me trying to ‘convert’ them. If a student chooses to ask me what I personally believe, I am entitled to answer honestly and explain the basics of my belief system. I’m a product of private Christian education. Even my tertiary education was undertaken at a private Christian institution. So [...]

When a Nickname Hurts

March 13, 2013 in Body Image, Gender, Health, Mental Health, Sexuality

This post may contain words offensive to some readers. Nicknames: most of us have one, maybe more. Usually those around us give them to us. When I was born, I was a solid baby, and a long baby. My first nickname given to me by my parents was ‘Big Bird’.  And to this day, they still bust it out, now and again. Once I started school, I was quickly named ‘Mars’ or ‘Mars Bar’ by my primary school peers.  Harmless and fun. Nothing hurtful about these nicknames. Then came high school- ‘Bostik’ (the glue stick, as I was straight up [...]

Should Your Job Affect Your Life?

January 8, 2013 in Celebrity, Current Affairs, Entertainment, Lifestyle, News, Sport, Work

By now you would have heard about Shane Warne flipping out at the MCG. For his dramatics Warne copped a $4,500 fine and a one match ban. While I understand the severity of the penalties, and I understand that what Warne did was unacceptable, this got me thinking about things we’ve all done in the workplace and whether or not some jobs are held to a higher sense of accountability than others. I am a teacher’s wife. This is a fact I am generally proud of as I believe teachers contribute greatly to society. My best friend is also a [...]

Those who can’t do, teach. Right?

September 14, 2012 in Books, Children, Lifestyle, Parenting, Work

Those who can’t do, teach. “People who are able to do something well can do that thing for a living, while people who are not able to do anything that well make a living by teaching.” (Used to disparage teachers. From George Bernard Shaw’s Man and Superman.) I hate that statement. It’s not funny, nor is it clever. It implies that practical people get out in the real world and contribute in a practical way, while teachers take the easy way out – our contribution is limited to academia at best. Here’s the thing: teachers aren’t simply educators (although if we [...]

Going Above and Beyond the Call of Duty

July 6, 2012 in Anecdotes, Children, Lifestyle, Parenting, People, Society, Stories, Work

There’s been a lot in the media lately about work, working overtime, loving your work or going above and beyond. That, combined with the teachers’ strike, reminded me of one time I felt a teacher had gone way past loving their work, and into superhero territory. I’d had one of those weeks fortnights months, where I had one tiny hiccup after another.  Nothing too serious mind you, but enough to make me incapable of organising our clean undies into our drawers or ensuring a semi-regular supply of fresh fruit and veges.  No naked scurvy-ridden varmints just yet … only the usual string of [...]

The Other Side Of The Red Pen

June 8, 2012 in Anecdotes, Children, Fathers, Mothers, Parenting, People, Relationships, Self, Society, Stories

So often when we think about things that happened to us as children, as teenagers, as students, we still see them through the eyes of the person it happened to. We don’t take a step back and re-evaluate the situation from an adult’s perspective. From the teacher, or the parent, from the adult we now are. When I was a young girl, I was playing with my dolls in the back room of my grandfather’s house, overlooking his farm. I knew there was a wedding happening that day, but I hadn’t really paid attention to who, so there I was [...]

Teachers Are Not The Enemy

May 21, 2012 in Children, Current Affairs, News, People, Society

Today’s guest post by Maree Talidu: On Friday the 18th of May, public school teachers across NSW attended ‘stop work’ meetings for two hours, from 9am to 11am. As a school teacher it has been hard to ignore the backlash fuelled by the media, who have whipped the public into a frenzied group who see teachers as nothing more than spoilt and inconsiderate. My local newspaper ran an online poll about people’s reaction to the Industrial Action taken on Friday. I have read some of the most vitriolic posts, claiming “Teacher’s have never worked in the real world” to “Teachers [...]