Girls: Embracing the Average on TV

November 19, 2012 in Body, Body Image, Celebrity, Entertainment, Fiction, Film & TV

It’s no secret that the characters in TV shows rarely mirror people in real life. Sure, their personalities may have some similarities but it’s not often they match up to reality in the looks department. Then there’s Girls, the new hit show from HBO that appears to be embracing the average. The premise may sound a little familiar; four friends in their twenties try to make their way in New York as they deal with the typical dramas facing young women in the Big Apple. Some are calling it Sex and the City for a new generation, and while I [...]

Book Review: The Perks of Being a Wallflower

November 15, 2012 in Books, Dating, Entertainment, Friendship, Sex, Sexuality

The Perks of Being a Wallflower is a young adult novel, but it certainly falls into the category of YA fiction that adults would love. The story is told through letters from fifteen-year-old Charlie to an unnamed friend. Charlie is apprehensive about starting high school after his only friend committed suicide a few months prior. He feels like no one understands him and that he is destined to go through life alone. This is a coming-of-age story that explores the importance of friendship and the need for us all to feel accepted. Charlie feels disconnected from his family and doesn’t [...]

Scared of sex? It’s not just you.

November 12, 2012 in Body Image, Dating, Gender, Health, Lifestyle, People, Relationships, Self, Sex, Sexuality, Society

It isn’t cool for a woman to say “I’m afraid of sex”. To my knowledge it never has been and it probably never will be. Yet we women are taught from the get-go to always place those two things, fear and sex, together – the inseparable flashcards in the lesson of life. I can already hear the accusations of feminism-gone-wild, of over-dramatisation. That’s okay. Let me just ask you a question. Why is it that we girls are taught early on that we must block boys’ attempts to kiss us, to ‘mess around with us’ (oh, scary ambiguities!), to ‘break [...]

Married In Italy & Monique’s Celeb Top 5

October 26, 2012 in Celebrity, Entertainment, Film & TV, Marriage, Pregnancy & Birth, Wedding

When writing these introductions, I wish that I could type the way I speak in person but sadly,  it sometimes doesn’t come across that way. For instance, I want to start with “hey hey hey” but said with some attitude. Now if you don’t hear the attitude or the subtle nuances in my voice (yes, using big words here), it will just look like I’ve repeated myself. Sigh. I hope this will change one day. It’s been a fun week in H0llywood this week with some awesome videos and what has got to be my favourite wedding photo ever. Enjoy… [...]

Is Our Collective Ryan Gosling Obsession Creepy?

October 22, 2012 in Celebrity, Dating, Entertainment, People, Relationships, Sex

When it comes to fascinations with Ryan Gosling, I get it, completely. I mean just look at him! Those eyes, that body, those arms. Do I need to continue? And don’t even get me started on him as Noah. Actually, while we’re on it, how freaking AMAZING is he as Noah? He can build me a house any day. And yes, I know, I know he’s just a fictional character, but I’m more than happy for him to just be Ryan Gosling. Ryan Gosling separate from Noah is still one hell of a romantic guy. As I’ve mentioned previously, in [...]

Has Fiction Sold Women a Lie?

October 17, 2012 in Books, Dating, Entertainment, Film & TV, Marriage, People, Relationships, Sex

I was having a conversation with some ladies at work recently about what they expect from their partner in the romance department. One woman admitted that her expectations might be high because she watches too many romance movies. It got me thinking; has fiction sold women a lie? We were discussing The Notebook (when doesn’t it come up in a conversation about romance?) and how it leaves many women feeling that they want the sort of complicated but unstoppable love Allie and Noah have. Now, I don’t want to paint all women with the same brush. I’m firmly in the [...]

Puberty Blues: Discussing The Dark Side of Teenage Sexuality

October 12, 2012 in Children, Entertainment, Film & TV, Friendship, Parenting, People, Relationships, Self, Sex, Sexuality, Society

Who knew a TV show could touch the hearts of so many Australians, old and young alike. Last week wrapped up the final episode of Puberty Blues which in my opinion is the best show on television this year, if you put Don Draper’s escapades in Mad Men to one side. Set in the 1970s, the series revolves around the family and friends of Debbie and Sue, two inseparable teenage friends who are growing up beside the backdrop of Sydney’s Sutherland Shire. When I was a teenager we had shows like Dawson’s Creek, Beverly Hills 90210 and Party of Five. [...]

Would You Pay for a Cuddle?

September 19, 2012 in Current Affairs, Friendship, Health, Mental Health, News, People, Relationships, Self, Sex, Society

Just when you thought you’ve heard of everything along comes the new craze to hit the US… the rise of the “cuddle party“. No, I’m not even kidding. What exactly happens at these parties? Firstly, get your mind out of the gutter please and lucky I’m here to enlighten you. Cuddle parties are strictly non-sexual gatherings in which guests hug, touch and massage one another. Huh? Yep, that’s what I thought until I read further and came to the realisation that in life what most of us are lacking is intimacy. I’m not talking about sex, or even trying to [...]

The Last Slice: Need And Forgiveness

September 12, 2012 in Family, Fiction, Friendship, Marriage, Relationships, Sex, Stories

“The Last Slice” is a short fiction serial about the customers and staff of the The Last Slice Cafe. It felt strange for Sandy to be sitting in The Last Slice Cafe again, especially on a Friday night. Thomas had somehow persuaded Cat to let Sandy meet with her. Sitting across the table from Cat made Sandy realise how much she missed her friend, but she could also feel the distance between them. It was as if an invisible barrier lay between them, and all she needed was to find a key, so maybe – just maybe – she could [...]

Hard-Core CGI Porn: How Far Should It Go?

August 31, 2012 in Celebrity, Film & TV, Sex, Sexuality, Society, Technology

CGI (Computer-generated imagery) has come a long way since it was first used in movies like Westworld, Star Wars, Alien, and Tron. Recent advances in CGI has given us amazingly life-like characters like Smeagol from Lord Of The Rings and those giant blue Smurfs in Avatar. It’s only a matter of time before CGI will be able to deliver performances so life-like that we won’t be able to tell the difference between a human actor and a CGI actor. Then, of course, it will be inevitable that this amazing technology will be used to deliver porn. This isn’t a new issue. CGI [...]