My Daughter’s Diagnosis Taught Me the Power of Words

February 20, 2013 in Children, Health, Mental Health, Parenting, Self

In 2005, at the age of three, my daughter was diagnosed with autism. The day I received the doctor’s report is forever burned in my memory. That is the day I left a safe and secure world for a new and unknown world of parenting a child with a disability. When the doctor said, ‘Your daughter has autism’, my heart froze. In that moment I felt the weight of the word and all that it implied, not only for my daughter’s future, but for mine. Later that day as I read through the report other words leapt from the page: [...]

What happens when the test results aren’t ‘normal’?

November 6, 2012 in Children, Family, Health, Human Rights, Mental Health, Parenting, People, Pregnancy & Birth, Society

Amniotic testing in pregnancy is par for the course these days. It can assist in recognizing birth defects and other ‘abnormalities’ of the baby while he/she is still cozily in utero. Some women refuse to have amniotic testing done because there IS a small risk that the baby can become distressed as the fluid that cushions it’s little home is pierced and drawn out. On this basis alone, some people choose to forgo the test. Others choose to have the testing done so they can ease their minds about the healthiness and ‘normality’ of their unborn baby. Others choose not [...]

How My Brother’s Death Made Me Want To Volunteer

July 24, 2012 in Children, Fathers, Health, Mental Health, Mothers, Parenting, People, Self, Society, Stories

At the beginning of this year I had a small goal that I wanted to achieve. When I say small, I mean big and when I say achieve, I mean just get off my butt and do something. I’ve wanted to volunteer for sometime but I was unsure what I could do and how I could use my skills to help others less fortunate. This post isn’t to get a pat on the back or even to inspire you – I just want to tell it because it means a great deal to me. So where do I start? The [...]