I Am Going Bald

April 12, 2013 in Body Image, Gender, Hair

Well, it’s no use denying it anymore… I am going bald. Truth be told, my hair has been receding for the past 15 years or so, but recently it’s crossed the line from “receding” to “balding”. I guess I’m lucky. I’ve avoided baldness until my late-40s – some guys go bald in their 20s! I’ve had a good run, but it’s time to admit defeat. I am turning into a googie-egg. Look, I’m not going to pretend that I’m happy about going bald. I’ve always been a little vain about my hair… I’ve always enjoyed playing with it. Long and [...]

Why do we continue to discriminate against men with long hair?

January 16, 2013 in Body Image, Current Affairs, Fashion, Gender, Hair, Human Rights, Self, Society

When I saw this story in the SMH this morning - Long-haired Virgin steward wins back his job – I thought to myself, yes, finally a win for men with long hair. As a man who likes to wear his hair long, I’ve long fought against any form of male hair discrimination. Unfortunately, when I came to read the article, I realised there was a twist to the story. It seems the reason that Mr Taleski won his case against Virgin Airlines was because he felt compelled to wear his hair long because he was suffering from a body-image disorder. Now I don’t want [...]

Video: The Human Anime Doll

October 3, 2012 in Body, Body Image, Entertainment, Face, Fashion, Film & TV, Hair, Health, Style

How far would you go to look like a cartoon character? This woman has gone to fairly extreme lengths to look like an Anime character. 19 year old Anastasiya Shpagina has transformed herself into a living, breathing anime character, and she’s posted a video tutorial to show you how to do it too. Anastasiya is part of a growing movement known as “Cosplay” or Costume Play which has been around for a long time but, with the help of the internet and social media, has found its’ footing firmly within current culture. With over 16,000 fans on one Facebook page, over 13,000 [...]

Surviving The Walk of Shame

August 9, 2012 in Body, Celebrity, Dating, Entertainment, Face, Fashion, Hair, Lifestyle, People, Relationships, Self, Sex, Society, Stories, Style

Have you ever done a walk of shame? You know how it goes – you go out of a night, go home with someone you hadn’t planned and have to return home in your clothes from the night before, often with hair all out of sorts and eye makeup looking a little more Kiss than kissable. It probably won’t surprise you to learn I’ve never really done a walk of shame. Closest I ever came was when Husband & I had gone out to the movies, before we were actually together, and we went back to his place that evening. [...]

Is 32 The New 50?

July 13, 2012 in Body Image, Hair, Health, Home, Lifestyle, Nails, People, Self, Society, Style, Work

I’m 32.  Recently I went to a hairdresser who is not my regular hairdresser. She commented on my hair, asking if my boss minded its colour, and when I said it had never been an issue, she suggested it should be and perhaps I could ‘tone it down’ to something more ‘age appropriate’. Those who know me will be aware that my wardrobe is filled with mostly black staple pieces that I will add a coloured accessory to- be it a scarf, jewellery, nails or even my hair. That’s me. But this exchange with the over zealous and fairly immature [...]

Women with short hair less attractive?

June 15, 2012 in Body Image, Celebrity, Entertainment, Gender, Hair, Health, News, People, Self, Style

Let me tell you something about my hair. IT DOESN’T GROW! The length it sits at now is the longest it has been in the history of my hair, which is about 5cm below my shoulders, shorter if I wear it curly as it is naturally. I marvel at it some days, as I wonder why women chop off their luscious locks when I struggle to grow my hair out at all. Which is why I was intrigued by an article which suggested that attractiveness can be measured in length. This is what Brisbane Times journalist and professional people watcher, [...]

All Men Have Long Hair (In defence of the male ponytail)

March 20, 2012 in Body Image, Gender, Hair, Self, Society

I am a 45 year old man with a ponytail. Stop laughing. Yeah, yeah…I know it’s an old cliché. For the record, this isn’t some midlife-crisis induced affectation. (No, that was my tattoo…but that’s another story…) I’ve worn my hair long most of my adult life…sometimes in a ponytail, sometimes not. Why do we laugh at men in ponytails? No, hang on…lets get one thing straight. It’s not a ponytail, it’s a male-tail! It’s not like it’s something new or unusual. All through history men have worn their hair long. For example, in the second half of the 18th century, [...]